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You Should Have Left

By Daniel Kehlmann

The material presented within this guide is intended to provide topics of discussion for your reading group. You Should Have Left is a haunting portrayal of a man fighting against the unknown, both inside and outside of himself. Please us these questions as guidelines only, and feel free to wander in your discussion! 

1. In the beginning, the narrator and his family move to a vacation home in Germany. What is his initial reaction to the setting?

2. How does the relationship between the narrator and his wife seem when they move in? What about his relationship with his daughter?

3. How do the characters/plot from Besties contribute to the story of the narrator and his family?

4. “Marriage. The secret is that you love each other anyway” (p. 9). How do you feel about that statement?

5. After the first unintended words in his journal, and his first nightmare, what did you think of the narrator’s mental state?

6. Discuss the narrator’s trip to the village store. Why do you think the proprietor questions him so closely about Steller? Who/what does Steller represent?

7. The narrator’s reflection seems to keep disappearing. Perhaps a trick of the light? A picture that was nailed to the wall disappears. Do you think the house is trying to drive him crazy? What other explanations might there be?

8. Susanna and the narrator agree to leave immediately. While she’s packing, he discovers evidence of her affair. Do you think it’s a coincidence that this happens when they were all about to get away?

9. Discuss what happens when the narrator tries to use the triangle ruler.

10. The store proprietor tells the narrator that the road has always been there, and local legend says a tower once stood where the house is. “The devil built it and a wizard destroyed it, with God’s help. Or the other way around, a wizard built it, and God destroyed it” (p. 87). How does this fit in with what is happening to the family?

11. The narrator tries to escape down the mountain with his daughter, only to be returned to the place where he started. What is his reaction?

12. “It’s the place itself. It’s not the house. The house is harmless, it’s simply standing where nothing should stand” (p. 102). Discuss what this means.

13. “I know now why they all have faces like that. Why they look the way they look. It’s because of the things they have seen” (p. 103). Who is the narrator describing? Who do you think they are?

14. Do you think the house is trying to make the family leave, or trap them there?

15. How much of what happens to the narrator is due to him going insane?

16. What do you think happens to the narrator at the end?